It's not immediately obvious how to do it, but connecting to your database from Drupal can be speeded up by using a unix socket. First though, you have to install Drupal using a TCP socket. Standard database installations listen on localhost so the install should proceed without problem.
Once this is done, edit settings.php
so:
$databases = array (
'default' =>
array (
'default' =>
array (
'unix_socket'=>'/var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock',
'database' => 'database_name',
'username' => 'user_name',
'password' => 'password',
# 'host' => 'localhost',
# 'port' => '',
'driver' => 'mysql',
'prefix' => '',
),
),
);
Now communications are through the much faster unix socket, rather than via TCP.